Pamper Yourself At Breakfast

April 10th, 2008

Yesterday, I was making myself one of my favorite breakfasts. I was enjoying the anticipation of having something delicious when disaster struck. Okay, that was a little overly dramatic for breakfast. Let me rephrase. I was disappointed to realize that I was out of a main ingredient.

I teach my children to read their recipe first and make sure that they have all of the ingredients before they begin cooking. I wish I could follow my own advice better!

One of my favorite breakfasts is steel cut oats with apricots and almonds. I was out of apricots. They really make all of the difference in this dish.

My aunt told me recently that she’d had a similar dish at a brunch and really enjoyed it. Yes, it’s great to serve on special occasions, but you deserve to be pampered for no reason at all.

I admit that I go through periods when I won’t take the time to make a favorite. But there have been long periods of time when I’ve made this recipe two or three times a week, too.

Preparation time is about 20 minutes. I’m worth that. So are you. It’s amazing how a little indulgence first thing in the morning can set you up for a great day.

I start with good steel cut oats. Yesterday, I used John McCann’s Steel Cut Oat Meal. One of the things I love about this oatmeal is that it comes in a resealable tin. That way it stays fresh, even if I skip a few weeks making steel cut oats.

These oats are imported from Ireland. The can itself is interesting to read. It includes awards and exhibitions that the oats were part of dating back to 1851. Impressive for a lowly oatmeal!

Laurie’s Favorite Oatmeal

Per serving:

  • 1 cup water
  • 1/4 cup steel cut oats
  • scant 1/8 tsp. salt
  • 1 (or 2) tablespoons toasted almonds
  • 4 or 5 dried apricots, diced
  • 1 pat of butter
  • sweetener to taste (honey, sugar, brown sugar, sugar substitute)
  • 3-4 tablespoons milk or cream
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Bring the water and salt to a boil. Add the oats, stirring. Bring to a boil again and reduce to a simmer. Stir occasionally and cook for 15 minutes (the instructions on the John McCann’s can say 30 minutes, but I like mine with a nuttier texture).

Remove from the heat. Add the almonds, apricots, butter, and sweetener. Pour into a small cereal bowl. Top with milk or cream.

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If you can’t find the time to treat yourself during the week, try this recipe on a Saturday or Sunday morning, whichever is your most leisurely. And if all else fails and you just can’t find the time, serve it at your next brunch.

Laurie

Family Night Helps Me Balance

April 2nd, 2008

I’m reading four books right now - a book on ecommerce, a book of etiquette, War and Peace (it’s great!), and 91 Mistakes Smart Salespeople Make by Tim Connor, bestselling author of Soft Sell. The first third of the book is strictly about attitude and it applies to everyone, not just salespeople.

Mistake #20 is “Being out of Balance.” The author divides our lives into eleven areas:

  1. family
  2. work
  3. finances
  4. friends
  5. social relationships
  6. spirituality
  7. self-development
  8. physical well-being
  9. personal interests
  10. career interests
  11. fun

I think that I will make myself a chart and evaluate myself on every category to see if I’m on track. You see, because I’m starting a new business, my life is being pulled even more out of balance than usual. It’s just normal that certain times in our lives - moves, new babies, falling in love, huge projects - tend to unbalance things for a while. That’s okay, as long as we work back to balance as soon as possible.

I expect that when I make my chart, I’ll see several deficiencies. But I already know that time is always set aside for family.

Luckily, our family instituted an insurance policy that provides family time each and every week. Even when things are crazy busy, Tuesday evening is Family Night. And it takes a funeral or major holiday for us to break that tradition.

We first started Family Night when the children were very young. We played Ants in the Pants and simple games that involved hiding people or things. As our family grew, we let Family Night fade away. And that was very unfortunate.

For two years after completing our family and finishing ten years of constant diapering, I was tied up building houses - first our own and then one for my parents. My father and I worked full-time plus on the building while other family members helped out as their work schedules permitted. Family Night was delayed during that horribly out-of-balance time in our lives.

But once my parents moved into their home, my number one job was getting our lives back into balance. In 2000, we re-instituted Family Night and haven’t wavered since.

At first, Family Night was a complicated affair. We had a family meeting where we taught the children to talk about their feelings, develop self-esteem, take turns talking and listening, and so forth. Then we provided a carefully planned activity like building boats from aluminum foil to see whose boat could carry the most pennies before sinking. We ended with a dessert.

These family nights were great, but planning them became a burden. When my husband and I had a busy week, Family Night planning seemed to be as heavy a burden as a boulder sitting on our shoulders.

But rather than giving up, we decided to simplify things. On a typical Family Night, we either play games and have a dessert, or we watch a movie and make popcorn.

We love the Cranium Games. Watch carefully for the appropriate age for your family. They really do have something for everyone. We also play traditional games like sardines, horse, and caroms.

Of course, I’ve watched virtually every animated film under the sun during Family Night, but now the children are getting older (the three still at home are between 11 and nearly 16) and they are occasionally willing to even try an “old” movie. And they often find that they like them. Of course, I like movies like Because of Winn-Dixie, Bridge To Terebithia, and Harry Potter just as much as the kids do.

Popcorn is made on the stove: 1/4 cup peanut oil, 3/4 cup popcorn, salt, and 1/2 stick real butter, melted, poured on top and shaken with the popcorn to coat evenly.

Dessert might be a homemade treat or it could be as simple as our favorite dark chocolate covered almonds.

From time to time, we spice up Family Night with a trip to a bookstore (a very pricy option for our family), miniature golf, going out to the movies, having dinner out (our favorite is a Thai cafe), or swimming.

The real secret to Family Night is to reserve it without fail. If something comes up that cannot be helped, have a second choice night that you substitute. Do not skip Family Night altogether.

I regard Family Night as the most important appointment I have during the week. So even if I’m working past midnight every night on my business or traveling often to show my rabbits, from suppertime to the kids’ bedtimes on Tuesday night, you know where I will be.

 

Laurie

Laurie’s Cobalt World Moves To Mayberry

March 31st, 2008

You remember the Andy Griffith Show don’t you? I’m sure you do if you were born before 1970 and am reasonably sure even if you weren’t. Mayberry is the fictitious town where Sheriff Taylor and his son Opie lived with Aunt Bea.
I love the way they lived life in Mayberry. They enjoyed meals together, sat on the swing after dinner, looked after each other, and got together for simple things like a talent show, playing music on the porch, or a school play. Ah, such a gentle life they led!
Well, I live near Mayberry. It’s not Mayberry exactly. It’s actually Mount Airy, North Carolina. Mount Airy is 15 minutes away and it is believed to be the inspiration for the town of Mayberry. And yes, there is a Pilot Mountain not far away. Sounds a lot like Mt. Pilot, doesn’t it?
Another piece of evidence that would support the notion that Mount Airy inspired Mayberry is that Andy Griffith was born there. He even used to play in the band at Grace Moravian Church - the same church my parents belong to.
He played a baritone that he later donated to the church, inscribed. My mother, who plays in the Grace Moravian band to this day, played that baritone until fairly recently when she got one of her own. When a local highway was dedicated to Andy Griffith, my parents played with the band a version of The Fishin’ Hole theme song that my dad arranged. (That’s the closest thing I have to a claim to fame!)
Did you know that theme song actually has words and not just a whistle? It’s true. Around here, lots of folks have actually sung the song. I have. It’s a lot like living in Cherokee, North Carolina, and being able to sing Amazing Grace in the native Cherokee language. It’s just one of the things you do.
Mount Airy, North Carolina, brings in quite a few tourists. They like to see the jail house, have a pork chop sandwich at Snappy Lunch, or check out Floyd’s Barbershop.
Mount Airy has a quaint, old-fashioned main street. And at the corner of Main Street and Oak Street is the Main Oak Emporium. The Emporium is an upscale vendor mall with an attached cafe. I love browsing through three floors of unique merchandise ranging from toys to jewelry to . . . well . . . to cobalt glass! It’s always been my secret weapon when shopping for my mother.
We moved in last Thursday and will start our first full month tomorrow. If you happen to ever be in Mount Airy, North Carolina, come see us on the second floor (which is actually one floor down from the Main Street level). I love seeing the cobalt glass all displayed together. To a cobalt-lover like me, it’s breath-taking.
Laurie

Cocktail Tasting Party

March 29th, 2008

Last evening we hosted an informal cocktail tasting party. I invited a small group over to help us test some non-alcoholic cocktail recipes. It was a lot of fun.

You might ask why I wanted to focus on non-alcoholic cocktail recipes. The answer is simple. There are many sources for alcoholic cocktails and many of those recipes are tried and true.

There are fewer resources for non-alcoholic cocktails. But there are many people for whom an alcoholic cocktail is not an option or is not preferred. Consider the following:

  1. Pregnant and nursing women
  2. Recovering alcoholics
  3. Those on medication not compatible with alcohol consumption
  4. Those who know they don’t hold alcohol well (two drinks and it’s lampshade time)
  5. Under 21’s
  6. Those who have a religious belief about alcohol consumption
  7. Those with medical conditions that are aggravated by alcohol consumption
  8. Those who never learned to enjoy the flavor of alcohol

To prepare for the party, I researched recipes I wanted to try. I made my grocery list and stocked up on cream, grenadine syrup, cherries, cranberry juice, pineapple juice, lemon juice, lime juice, orange juice, passion fruit juice, peach nectar, lemon lime soda, strawberries, cream of coconut, and lots of ice.

Preparation was easy. I made some simple syrup ahead of time. We set out freshly popped corn, some pistachios, and chips. I arranged a bowl of oranges, lemons, and limes. The blender, shakers, glasses, strainer, and measuring implements were on hand. And I put all of the juices into ice chests so they would be at hand and so we wouldn’t be constantly opening and closing the refrigerator all evening.

I gave the guests a choice between some of my favorite cobalt blue cocktail glasses and a clear wine glass. Everyone chose the cobalt blue ones, of course. They were just so appealing. (By the way, I have some new margarita, wine, and martini glasses coming in soon. I can’t wait!)

I started out bartending, but luckily some of our guests enjoy the job as well, so no one person got stuck making drinks all evening.

The first cocktail was the Bobby Cocktail. It was an instant hit with all but one guest. No one could believe that she didn’t like it. But each to her own. The Bobby Cocktail is a cream and citrus beverage that reminds me of a fine lemon mousse.

Our second beverage of the evening was a non-alcoholic cosmopolitan. The reactions were pretty hilarious and none of them were good. You will not find that recipe listed here or on the Laurie’s Cobalt World website. It failed to please anyone. Some comments were, “Curls your toes,” and “Will grow hair on your chest.” Enough said.

The next cocktail - Unfuzzy Navel - was a huge success. Some guests noted at the end of the evening that it was their favorite. The flavor is very robust - nothing wimpy or watery about it. Peach and orange flavor comes first and you finish with a lovely pineapple aftertaste. You really want to try this one.

I especially liked the Alice Cocktail. Several guests thought that the cocktail was strawberry-based, but in actuality, there was no strawberry in it. It’s a creamy cocktail flavored with a generous portion of grenadine syrup, a pomegranate-flavored syrup.

I made an error that affected the next recipe. I put the cream of coconut into the ice chest with the juices. That caused the cream to congeal, making it a little difficult to use. I put the coconut cream and milk into the microwave and melted it enough to stir before using it. It was a pretty funny moment when we opened the can!

Luckily, my boo-boo didn’t affect the recipe at all. And the Virgin Strawberry Colada was another hit. This drink is a frozen cocktail. Make sure that you don’t make it too thick. Late in the evening, the drink was repeated (I told you it was a hit). But this time, it was too thick. When I tried to drink it, a lump of beverage broke loose all at once and I got it on my nose! Not elegant. Not at all.

We ran out of evening before we tried all of the recipes I had in mind. My family and I tried Safe Sex On the Beach - the cocktail by that name, that is. It was nice. It’s a good choice for someone who doesn’t like their cocktail too sweet but doesn’t care for too sour either.

 

Safe Sex On The Beach Cocktail Recipe
  • 1/4 cup peach nectar
  • 1/3 cup cranberry juice
  • 1/3 cup orange juice

Mix all ingredients and then pour over ice. Garnish with a cherry, if desired.

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If you like to pucker up a bit, try the Yellow Jacket. We made this twice and adjusted the recipe the second time. It was much preferred in this version:

Yellow Jacket Cocktail Recipe 
  • 1/3 cup pineapple juice
  • 1/3 cup orange juice
  • 3 tablespoons lemon juice

Fill a shaker half full of cracked ice. Pour all ingredients into the shaker. Shake until the cocktail is very cold and the ice just begins to melt. Strain into two martini glasses and serve.

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The last non-alcoholic cocktail recipe we tried is a Tequila Meadow. No, there’s no tequila in it, of course. It’s crisp and light, and sweet, but not overly sweet.


Tequila Meadow

  • 1/4 cup orange juice
  • 1/4 cup pineapple juice
  • 1 T. cranberry juice
  • 3/4 tsp. grenadine syrup
  • 1/4 cup lemon-lime soda

Fill a shaker halfway with cracked ice. Add all ingredients except the soda. Shake well and strain into a glass. Add the soda and stir gently.

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While it is fun to have formal parties, informal evenings can be so entertaining. I highly recommend getting some of your friends and family together to cook together, taste something together, or otherwise have a shared experience. It’s worth it.

Laurie

I’m Planning An Afternoon Tea

March 25th, 2008

I really must be a slow mover - at least in some areas. I’ve been thinking about hosting an afternoon tea in honor of my mother for several years now. This year, I’m actually going to do it.

I am so excited about it. It will be held on Mother’s Day and the guests will include our local family.

Following the English example, this tea will include both male and female guests. We often think of matrons with floral dresses and large hats sipping tea, but teas were originally for everyone.

Before I go further, let me say that a tea need not be elaborate. Tea and cookies or tea and scones is enough. But I’ve decided on quite a bit more for this tea.

It will be a full tea and an afternoon tea, but not a high tea. I’m setting it at 5:00, about as late as you want to schedule an afternoon tea. Since there are other mothers on my guest list, I want to give them as much time as possible for their other Mother’s Day activities.

If this were a high tea, the menu would resemble a full meal much more.

Since it is a full tea, we will be having three courses: scones, tea sandwiches, and sweets.

I’ve decided to make apricot scones and I will serve them with homemade lemon curd, raspberry jam, and clotted cream.

Clotted cream is not available in my town, or even in the next town. But I do know a place in Winston-Salem, the closest city, where I can get it at a gourmet market.

I’ll probably be trying out my lemon curd recipes between now and then. The last time I made it, it was a little too tart for my taste. Once I’ve settled on the best one, I’ll post the recipe either here, in my newsletter, or on my website.

The next course will be tea sandwiches. I’ve decided on turkey with cranberry mustard and my favorite tea sandwiches. These tea sandwiches are cream cheese-based, a popular choice.

I first made these sandwiches in 1979. Since it wasn’t a tea, I made the sandwiches a little bit bigger than finger size. In fact, I used two different colors of bread (pumpernickel and rye, if I recall correctly) and made an alternating design.

First I froze the bread. Then I used a sturdy, sharp cookie cutter to cut the bread into decorative rounds. Using a smaller cookie cutter, I cut out a design in the middle of half of the slices. I believe it was a simple flower shape. I popped out the centers and switched them. Then I assembled the sandwiches using a solid bottom and a decorative top.

The filling is simple to make, but will get a lot of attention from your guests. It’s really good.

Favorite Tea Sandwich Filling Recipe

2 3-oz. packages of cream cheese, softened
1 oz. bleu cheese

1/2 cup finely chopped pecans
1/4 tsp. minced dried onion flakes
1/2 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
1/3 cup mayonnaise (not salad dressing)

Mix all ingredients well. Place in the refrigerator for several hours to blend flavors. Bring to room temperature before filling sandwiches. Lightly spread bread with a thin coat of butter before filling.

Makes about 1 1/2 cups of filling.

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I’ll be able to make those sandwiches a day ahead of time, carefully wrap them airtight, and store them in the refrigerator until about 1/2 hour before serving time.

We’ll talk about the sweets, tea, flowers, invitations, and music another day.

Laurie